The author does a phenomenal job in giving a voice to a population that is often marginalized and voiceless.
Carlos Frias:
More than a memoir, it's a touchstone for families who believe they are alone in an uphill battle with America's attitude toward—and treatment of—mental health.
Jessica Bylander:
[Gionfriddo] provides a heartbreaking account of his son Tim's struggles with mental illness—and presents a call to action.
A memoir that makes a strong argument: the public policy around mental illness is in shambles.... Gionfriddo's story is powerful, persuasive, and sad.
Patrick J. Kennedy, founder, the Kennedy Forum, and cofounder, One Mind for Research:
The best policy makers are those who focus on how their work affects the people they serve. As a former legislator who became the parent of a son with schizophrenia, Paul Gionfriddo found himself in a position to discover firsthand that even the best-intentioned laws don't always work for those who must rely on them. His book shows how personal struggles have helped him to rethink our nation's approach to mental health policy.
David Shern, senior science advisor, Mental Health America:
Gionfriddo has a unique perspective on the concrete functioning of the real mental health 'system' in America that involves schools, justice facilities, housing departments, disability programs, the courts, general health care, and addiction and mental health programs. His unique take is a story of confusion, missed opportunities, and a roller coaster of emotions as the young Tim grows out of his family's orbit to launch his life while trying to find his strategy to accommodate his life goals with schizophrenia. This story is touching, frustrating, and all too common. Hopefully in its retelling, we can find new strategies to really address the needs of families struggling with severe mental illnesses.
Sandra A. Spencer, executive director, National Federation of Families for Children's Mental Health:
Losing Tim is a memoir of passion and a call to action. It is a must-read for all policy makers, practitioners, and school personnel. As a parent who is raising a child with mental illness, and as the leader of a national mental health organization created to offer support to families, I would also recommend this book as a resource to families who struggle raising a child with mental illness in a rigid, nonintegrated service system. Paul details the journey through the maze of getting the proper diagnosis and the needed supports and services in a way that must lead to change.
Charles Bruner, executive director, Child and Family Policy Center:
Combining the perspectives of a loving father and a mental health policy expert, Gionfriddo describes the unintended results of a mental health system for children that places responsibility for responding to mental disorders on those afflicted by them. He makes an incontrovertible case for restructuring public policies and child mental health services to build upon the child and family and its strengths and needs as the foundation for continuous, respectful, flexible, and adaptive systems response.
Larry Davidson, Yale University:
A father's description of his family's struggles to raise and support a son with significant psychiatric difficulties, along with his reflections on the failures and gaps in care that his son encounters consistently over the course of his first two decades of life. The story is painful and instructive, and unfortunately not uncommon.